You Know Nothing: Death

In the last three weeks, Callum, Simon’s son has been mentioning death more than 3 times to me including today. He said “you die” then I replied “not today” or “I die when I die”. I guess, he is in this phase where he is curious about the concept of death. I don’t want to…

You know nothing: Falling in Love

The title sounds like bullshit already. But there is truth in there, I know nothing about falling in love with someone.. as I might never did. What is falling in love feels like? Excitement to hear their voice? Dilated pupils when we see their face? The comfort when we smell their scent? I felt all…

You Know Nothing: Friendship

They say, the older we get, the harder we form friendship with new people. Well, not in my case. In my early age, I never had a group of special people I belong to. When some people has bestfriends since they were kids, I don’t. Mostly because I no longer able to get along with…

5 Things You Must Do Before Ending Long-term Relationship

Edwin and Sara have been living together for four years. They have been dating for half a year before Sara moved in. She decided to move to make the relationship works, it’s easier for her to move to Edwin’s place than the other way around. Time goes by, they lived as a happy couple until…

25 Marriage Rule of Thumb

Over the years, I have been surrounded by people whose cohabitation and or marriage life don’t work as smooth as they planned before (well.. nobody plans for chaos, isn’t it?) I figured, it’s happening everywhere, thus, this note might be useful for some of you. Marriage is not for everyone, some people find it hard to…